INTRODUCTION

If you were King of the World, what would your world look like? 

Leader note:  Have fun with this.  What would you change about the existing world?  Try to steer away from politics.

 

OBSERVATION

Read Matthew 4:17, 10:7, 11:2-5, 12:28, 2 Corinthians 5:18-6:2.  What do you learn about the Kingdom?

 

Leader note:  This topic is abstract; there is no single passage that gives a complete description of the Kingdom of God, its timing, the responsibilities of those under the reign of the King, etc.  Therefore we are using several passages which incorporate the Kingdom language, the fact that it is near (at hand) which explains the “now” and “not yet” aspects of the Kingdom.  It was ushered in by Jesus, but the world has divided it’s loyalty between God (light) and Satan (darkness) and both reign on the earth.  At some point, of God’s choosing, Satan will be completely thrown out, and the Kingdom of God will reign, solely for all of eternity.  Until that time, we live in the tension of experiencing some of the Kingdom in the midst of this world, but struggle with sin and a world dealing with the consequences of sin.

 

Commentary:  In the passages you will see Jesus talk about the Kingdom coming “near” and the ministry done in the Kingdom of God – there is a responsibility for those ruled by the Lord – a responsibility of reconciliation, healing, proclamation of the gospel, to be coworkers of God, receive and give God’s grace, salvation is now. 

 

Leader note: Include the words and works of Jesus in your observations, as well as the responsibilities for those who follow Him.

 

Commentary: (some of the answers your group should find)

The Kingdom is “of God” – ruled by God
The Kingdom of God is upon us (Jesus was healing in the Spirit of the Lord…)
There is healing
There is restoration of sight
The good news goes to the poor
Those in the Kingdom are to be reconcilers
Those in the Kingdom are to be God’s co-workers – we would work within His desires – His reign

 

UNDERSTANDING

What evidence do you see that the Kingdom of God is upon us (now)?

What evidence do you see that the Kingdom of God is not yet complete?

 

Leader note:  There is evidence all around us of both a kingdom of light – reconciliation, serving, evangelizing, healing, restored lives, restored marriages etc., and then the repercussions of sin and immorality are pervasive as well.  Have your group talk about both, think of specific things that affect your home, your family, your community and the world.

 

APPLICATION

Where are you living as if you are part of ushering in the Kingdom of God?

Where are you struggling with the “not yet”?

 

 

LIVE IT OUT

How can our group usher in the Kingdom of God in our community?

 

You may have some in your group who just revealed areas they are struggling with, where they are wavering.  Pray for victory over these areas, pray specifically for them.  Lay hands on them if you are comfortable doing that.  Thank God for the victories you have seen and for those areas in your life and community where you have seen evidence of the Kingdom and that God reigns in your life.  Pray for the Kingdom come, now and completely.

Flow Questions for July 20 & 21, 2012

In this series we are taking a close look at the Lord’s Prayer where Jesus modeled for us how we should pray.  As you start each week, say the prayer together.  It will be encouraging to see how much more meaningful the prayer is as you progress through your study of each phrase, understanding the history and intention behind each one.  This will take the place of your introduction question and will focus everyone on the study before them.

Matthew 6:9-13

“This, then, is how you should pray:

“‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name,
10 your kingdom come,
your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
11 Give us today our daily bread.
12 And forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 And lead us not into temptation,[a]
but deliver us from the evil one.[b]

Leader Tip:  Have someone in the group read through the Lord’s prayer.  Note that the bolded print is the area of focus.  Treating God’s name in a holy manner.

hal·lowed  /ˈhæloʊd; in liturgical use often ˈhæloʊɪd/ Show Spelled[hal-ohd; in liturgical use often hal-oh-id] Show IPA   adjective  regarded as holy; venerated; sacred: Hallowed be Thy name; the hallowed saints; our hallowed political institutions.

Exodus 20:7

“You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.

Leader Tip:  Notice the third commandment; do not misuse the name of the Lord.  This week’s topic is using the name of the Lord in a holy manner.

Do you have a nickname?  What is the story behind your name or nickname? 

Leader Tip:  This should be an easy question for your group to answer.  Your group can talk about how their parents chose their first name, or how they received their nickname. 

Read the following passages:  We will be studying how the people were misusing the temple of God as a way for their own interests, over God’s interest.

Mark 11:15-17

15 On reaching Jerusalem, Jesus entered the temple courts and began driving out those who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the money changers and the benches of those selling doves, 16 and would not allow anyone to carry merchandise through the temple courts. 17 And as he taught them, he said, “Is it not written: ‘My house will be called a house of prayer for all nations’[c]? But you have made it ‘a den of robbers.’[d]

John 2:12-16

12 After this he went down to Capernaum with his mother and brothers and his disciples. There they stayed for a few days.13 When it was almost time for the Jewish Passover, Jesus went up to Jerusalem. 14 In the temple courts he found people selling cattle, sheep and doves, and others sitting at tables exchanging money. 15 So he made a whip out of cords, and drove all from the temple courts, both sheep and cattle; he scattered the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables. 16 To those who sold doves he said, “Get these out of here! Stop turning my Father’s house into a market!”

What were the people in the Temple doing and what was Jesus’ response?

COMMENTARY:

The people:  They were buying and selling animals (cattle, sheep, and doves).  They were buying and selling the animals for sacrifices.  There were money changers and dealers exchanging foreign currency.  They were using the Temple as a marketplace

Jesus’ response:  He was angry.  He made a whip with rope.  He drove out the people.  He stopped everyone from using the temple marketplace.  He chased the dealers out.  He knocked over the tables of money changers.  He drove out the livestock.  He told the people selling the doves to get out of there.  He scattered the money all over the floor. He quoted Scripture saying, “My temple will be called a place of prayer for all nations, but you have turned it into a den of thieves.”  He reminded everyone this was the Father’s house and was to be kept holy and used only for those things of God—not making money. 

Cultural and Historical:

The Jewish Temple was a magnificent structure. It soared some fifteen stories above the Kidron Valley floor to the east. It was nearly 500 yards long and 400 yards wide. The outer court of the Temple compound was nearly the size of fifteen football fields.

The purpose of the businesses within the temple grounds was legitimate and legal and offered a needed service.  Faithful Jews were expected to offer animal sacrifices and financial gifts at the Temple. Oftentimes pilgrims who had traveled from afar found it more convenient to buy their animals in Jerusalem rather than transport them across the country.

Jesus entered the temple grounds on the Monday of the last week of His life on earth.  His triumphant entry into Jerusalem had taken place three days earlier, and he knew his betrayal, trial and death were eminent.  

When Jesus entered the temple grounds pens of sheep, goats, doves, and other sacrificial animals were everywhere. Moneychangers operated other tables. The priests and/or other local politicians maintained strict control over the franchises for these temple businesses, often demanding a kickback. Once a limited number of merchants had a corner on the market, they were free to conduct business as they pleased. The moneychangers would charge exorbitant fees. Similarly, the animal sellers would mark up their prices. 

The priests had a system to take care of any competing markets that might crop up outside the temple grounds. Before an animal could be sacrificed it had to pass a temple inspection. The priests who were getting a kickback would simply reject any animal that didn’t come from their licensed merchants. The whole system was filled with greed and corruption.

How do you see people do things in the “name of God,” yet what they are doing is not motivated by God? 

Leader Tip:  Have your group consider people they know who go to church with motives other than worshiping or growing their faith.  There are those who go to network and to put on appearances.  There are those who serve only to be seen serving or only for something nice to be put on a resume. 

What are reasons that people use or leverage the name of God?

Leader Tip:  There would be a lot or reasons for people to use the name of God in their work endeavors—first of all, the name of God carries a lot of weight in most circles.  Motives seem pure and noble when associated with the name of God.  Sometimes people use the name of God to set a tone for what they are seeking.  Most often, when people use the name of God for personal gain, their motivation is complete selfishness

What can people do to bring their actions more in alignment with what God really wants and make it less about what they want?

Leader Tip:  The first thing people need to do is recognize that what they are doing is not right; then they can begin to address their actions and tweak them to be more in line with God’s will.  For instance, if someone is doing service work for the mere benefit of what it will do for a college application, they can step back from that particular activity and consider what they really want the end result to be.  If they are passionate about the cause, they simply have to focus more on the cause and less on their personal gain.  But there are other more serious situations that go deeper than just a change in focus—a change of heart is really what is needed. 

Where in the past have you done something in the name of God, yet it had nothing to do with God?  How did it make you feel?

Leader Tip:  As a leader you may want to be the first to answer this question, as it can be a bit painful to answer.  There may be guilty feelings or regret as people share, so be prepared for an emotional response.  Have your group consider even the most subtle personal gain they got from doing something for the church, such as wehen they were in youth group to meet that cute boy or girl, or when they went on a missions trip because it was somewhere they always wanted to see, or going to the men’s breakfast to be with that business contact they haven’t been able to get time with.  May you got free registration for your kids if you volunteered for VBS and you chose the position with the least time and effort.  In this situation, the focus was not on helping the ministry, but rather the free admission.  How do you feel at the end of the day?  Most likely it was an empty feeling at best.  The difference between doing something for the Lord and say you’re doing something for the Lord is huge, and the results are evident in how you feel when it’s over. 

Where in your life are you (even in the most subtle way) using God’s name for personal gain instead of God’s glory? 

Leader Tip:  Sometimes it feels like you’re doing the right thing, but if you look at your motivation you see that the opportunity to profit personally, relationally, and financially far outweighs the possibly of profiting spiritually.  Consider your church activities, your charitable works, your service opportunities, your business ventures, and your leisure activities.  How many have the name of God associated with them?  How many are really about furthering his kingdom, growing your relationship with him, or bringing glory to him?

What would it look like for your motivation to be to honor God instead of yourself?

Leader Tip:  The goal?  That feeling of fulfillment, that God is pleased with you and that you have done the right thing for the right reason, is one that you can claim every day.   

What are ways that you feel like you authentically honor the name of God?

Leader Tip:  So often we can tend to be hard on ourselves, only focusing on the ways we are not doing what God has called us to do, or not being the way God wants us to be.  Use this question as a way to let people share how they are honoring God in their life.  Also, this is a great time for other members to affirm what they see in each other, a great affirmation time.

INTRODUCTION – 5 MINUTES

In this series we are taking a close look at the Lord’s Prayer where Jesus modeled for us how we should pray.  As you start each week, say the prayer together.  It will be encouraging to see how much more meaningful the prayer is as you progress through your study of each phrase, understanding the history and intention behind each one.  This will take the place of your introduction question and will focus everyone on the study before them.

(Optional)

If you prefer you can use the following introduction question with your group.

What has been the favorite place you’ve lived?

 

OBSERVATION – 20 MINUTES

Read 1 Kings 8:3-12.  What do you learn about God’s dwelling place?

Leader note:  You will be looking at several passages in chunks.  Answer the question after each passage, just as they are divided in these questions. 

Leader note:  Don’t read the answers to your group.  Let them discover through observation the answers to these questions.  The commentary and leader notes are for your (the leader) reference only, in case you get stuck, or need to prompt your group.

Commentary:

The glory of the Lord filled the Most Holy Place in the inner sanctuary of the temple

Read 1 Kings 8:27:30. What do you learn about God’s dwelling place?

Commentary:

The heavens can’t contain Him – He is more than there
Heaven is a dwelling place for God.
The temple is a dwelling place for “My Name” (a way to refer to YHWH – LORD, God)
God hears us from His dwelling place

Read Jeremiah 23:23-24, 1 Corinthians 3:16-17 and Philippians 3:20.  What do you learn about God’s dwelling place?

Commentary:

He is both nearby and far away
He fills both the heaven and the earth
We can’t hide from Him (He is everywhere)
He dwells in us (we are His temple)”
God is in our midst
Jesus is in Heaven and will come to us from there
We are also citizens of heaven

UNDERSTANDING – 20 MINUTES

What does it mean that God is far and set apart from earth and “the world”?

Leader note:  Have your group consider what it means to have a Most Holy God – one who is apart from anything in this world.  How is he revered?  How is He worshiped?  What attributes would He possess and what power does that make possible?

What does it mean that God is near and in us and with us?

Leader note:  Have your group consider what it means that God is an intimate, close God.  One Who will be involved, walk with, care about our daily happenings. 

APPLICATION – 20 MINUTES

How will your prayers change knowing God is far and set apart?

Leader note:  Consider the answers from the previous questions.  Have you been including thoughts and words in your prayers that capture who God is in His “faraway-ness” or preeminence?  What does a new prayer that does take that into account look like, or sound like to you?

How will they change knowing God is near and in you and with you?

Leader note:  Now think about your prayer life.  Have you included language that captures the fact that God is immanent – here with you – dwelling in your midst, even within you?

Pray

Your group will have just expressed personal implications of the truths of this study.  Pray their prayer of God’s farness and closeness out loud.  If they are comfortable with the idea, have them pray their own prayer out loud.  Go around the group until everyone has had a chance to embrace God’s holiness and apartness, and His immanence and closeness in their life.

 

(Optional)

At the end of 1 Kings 8, Solomon blesses the Israelites with this blessing.  This may be a great way to end your time together.  Read this aloud and bless your group.

“May the Lord our God be with us as he was with our ancestors; may he never leave us nor forsake us.  May he turn our hearts to him, to walk in obedience to him and keep the commands, decrees and laws he gave our ancestors.  And may these words of mine, which I have prayed before the Lord, be near to the Lord our God day and night, that he may uphold the cause of his servant and the cause of his people Israel according to each day’s need,  so that all the peoples of the earth may know that the Lord is God and that there is no other.  And may your hearts be fully committed to the Lord our God, to live by his decrees and obey his commands, as at this time.”

 

Live it out

Where are you acting far when God would have you be near?

Introduction – 5 MINUTES

Who is a TV or Movie father you would like to meet?  Why?

Leader note: This should be an easy question for you to answer.  Try to avoid tangents of people who had a bad father – keep the discussion away from personal experience and steer to a safer dialog of TV or movies.  It could be a funny dad, a loving dad, or other attributes that attract you to him.

 

Observation – 10 MINUTES

Read Romans 8:14-17.  What do you learn about a relationship with God?

Commentary: 

“those who are led by the Spirit” – this particular passage is directed at Christians
We are His children
By the Spirit we are adopted – it is not a relationship of slavery
By the Spirit we can call God “our Father”  Abba (personal and intimate relationship – like calling Him daddy
The Spirit testifies with our Spirit, by the Spirit we are claimed as a child
Through this relationship we are co-heirs with Jesus
We will share in Christ’s sufferings as well as His glory

 

Understanding – 20 MINUTES

Look at each statement from the passage.  What is reassuring or challenging about each promise?

Leader note:  As you look through each of the promises, have your group share what is something they looks forward to or take comfort in and what, on the other hand seems challenging.

Leader note:  Try to keep these answers in the third person as you will be personalizing them in the next question.

Commentary:

Calling God “Abba” or daddy seems like such a personal and intimate relationship, one that makes God seem more accessible and concerned for our well-being.

Knowing the suffering Christ endured makes it difficult to consider that we could share in that kind of suffering – or any kind of suffering.  So often people represent being a Christian as someone who no longer has challenges, but life will all of a sudden be easy.

 

Application – 20 MINUTES

Which of these promises are reassuring to you?  Which are challenging?  Why?

Leader note:  As your group answers, stop them and ask specifically why the promise is challenging or why it is reassuring.  What about the statement resonates?  This is the appropriate place for people to talk about their relationship with their father, or their relationship with a child.

 

Live it Out

Who in our community would benefit from knowing God as their Abba Father?

 

Pray:  As you end your time together take time to thank the Spirit for what He promises to do for you.  Acknowledge the work He does within you and for your relationship with God the Father.  Pray for each person for what was challenging to them and also praise God for those promises that are reassuring and what we have to look forward to in the future, as well as what we have now.