John 11:1-44 // The Last Week

Good Friday Services – April 3, at 12n, 3, 4:30, 6, & 7:30Before there is the resurrection and new life, there is darkness and death.  We want to encourage you and your life group to attend a Good Friday service to feel the heaviness and weight of the cross so that you can also experience the joy, celebration, and new life of Easter in a deeper and more profound way!

Lean In // 5 minutes

What are things that don’t change in life?

Sample answers may include:
• Death
• Taxes
• Getting old
• World systems (government, economic, etc.)
• Teaching old dogs new tricks
• UCLA fans and USC fans not getting along

Leader Note: Transition your group into the Look Down by highlighting how this week’s passage challenges the idea that things don’t change in life.

Look Down // 10 minutes

Read John 11:1-44

Leader Note: Before reading the passage, ask the question and encourage group members to take notes and write down observations. This week’s passage is written in story form and is longer than usual. As you read, it may be helpful to break it up into sections (IE- 11:1-16; 17-37; 38-44).

What do learn about death and life from the passage?

Sample answers on death:

  • Jesus promises that death is not the end (v. 4)
  • God uses even death for His glory (v. 4)
  • Jesus holds the power over death (v. 11)
  • Jesus speaks of death in ways we don’t understand (v. 12)
  • Death causes confusion and questions about God (vv. 20, 32, 37)
  • Jesus grieves the death in our life (v. 33)
  • We doubt that God can bring dead things to life (v. 38)

Sample answers on life:

  • Jesus is the resurrection and the life (v. 25)
  • Where there is death, there is opportunity for resurrection and new life
  • Jesus promises life to those who believe in Him (vv. 25-26)
  • God turned a sad and hopeless event into a time of belief and celebration
  • Jesus’ words have the power of life (vv. 43-44)
  • Jesus allows us to participate in bringing life to others (vv. 39, 44)
  • New life points to God’s glory (v. 40)

Look Out // 10 minutes

What causes people to lose hope?  Where have you seen it?

What causes people to regain hope?  What does it look like?

Leader Note: This question is designed to get your group thinking about where they have seen the principles of this passage in the world today. Have they ever seen someone lose and regain hope? What did it look like and what were those defining characteristics?

Look In // 20 minutes

What are things in your life that you think will never change?

Sample answers:

  • I’ll never get out of debt
  • I’ll never hear God’s Voice
  • I’ll never get out of this place
  • My family will never come to know the Lord
  • My relationship will never be reconciled
  • I’ll always have this stronghold
  • I’ll always have this addiction

What would it look like to “roll away the stone” and trust Jesus?

Leader note: In the passage, Jesus’ desire was to bring Lazarus from death to life but he asked others to trust him and roll away the stone. In a similar way, Jesus’ desire is to bring life to our places of death. But, there is a part we play in trusting Jesus and His power and opening up those places that are dead and decaying.

Live It Out // 5 minutes

How would experiencing Jesus’ new life in those areas impact you and others?

Easter 2015…is the celebration of new life!  Like a spark exploding out of the darkness of death – it’s the event all of eternity hinges upon. Jesus overcame the power of death to bring us abundant life, hope and new beginnings.  We want everyone in our community to experience the celebration of Jesus’ resurrection and the gift of a life lived out in full color offered to you this Easter!  We have a part to play in this celebration. From inviting our neighbors and friends to serving on the weekend we encourage you and your Life Group to jump all in!  Sign up to serve here.

Easter Services: April 4- 4pm & 6pm // April 5- 8:30a, 10a, & 11:30a

Learn More About Flow Questions: Check out Kenton Beshore’s book Ask in the Irvine Campus Bookstore for more on the Flow Question model.

Matthew 5:38-48 // Outrageous Love

Lean In // 5 minutes

What’s something bizarre you’ve seen that stopped you in your tracks?

Leader Note: Help your group think out of the box here, invite humor, crazy things that happen or we see that seem to come out of nowhere. Transition your group by saying something like… “just as these things cause us to stop and take notice, the words of Jesus in this passage would have been absolute crowd stoppers.” Here are some things are team came up with if you need a little help getting this conversation going! 

  • A man riding a bike in our neighborhood with a parrot on his shoulder
  • An intoxicated person in a “spider-man” costume falling of a sidewalk
  • Someone carrying a baby calf on his back while driving a motor bike
  • A sidewalk “sign waiver” breakdancing on the street corner

 

Look Down // 10 minutes

Read Matthew 5:38-48

What do you learn about outrageous love from the passage? 

  • It goes against what most people think, say and do
  • It’s more the what’s expected, above and beyond vs. the bare minimum  
  • It’s selfless and generous
  •  It’s dangerous, risky
  • Pray is a part of it but it also takes effort, active not passive, you have to do something, turn your cheek, give your shirt, go the extra mile
  • It does not demand or even expect anything in return
  • It doesn’t not pursue revenge, leaves issues of justice to God.

 

Look Out // 10 minutes

What does it look like to meet hate with hate, where have you seen it?

What does it look like to meet hate with love, where have you seen it?

 

Leader Note: This question is designed to get your group thinking about where they have seen the principles of the passage in the world today. Have they actually seen or heard about someone loving this way… what did that look like, what were the defining characteristics? What stories, examples, can you think of where people don’t live this way and what does that look like?

 

Look In // 20 minutes

When was a time someone showed you outrageous love?

Leader Note: While we want our group to discuss where they need to live this way it is helpful to talk about where they’ve given this type of love. This will not only invite emotion but cause people to see that in many ways I have been the offender and need to receive this type of love from others. Recognizing our own need for this compels us to offer it to others.

Where do you struggle to extend outrageous love and what steps can you take to live this way?

Leader Note: Use caution in this question as we never want to excuse any form of abusive behavior. Identifying the person or the situation where we need to live this out does not make the action or behavior ok. By choosing love we take the control away from the abuser and put our trust in God to make things right.

 

Live It Out // 5 minutes

What if you actually lived this way? How would others see Jesus, how would they be impacted?

Key Verse: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute youMatthew 5:44

Key Thought: Jesus calls his followers to live out outrageous love!

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Learn More About Flow Questions: Check out Kenton Beshore’s book Ask in the Irvine Campus Bookstore for more on the Flow Question model.

Be Fearless

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There are no flow questions this week due to a guest speaker. Take time this week to look at the Be Fearless Campaign, reminding your group that is who we are called to be as a Mariners Life Group. Our goal is 100% participation… everyone giving, everyone serving as response to the generosity we have received form God!

We are called to fearlessly impact our community. In 2013, we began BE FEARLESS. Through this generosity campaign, so far we have raised over $1.5 million and served thousands of hours to benefit those in Orange County and around the world. It’s time to BE FEARLESS again.

Through giving $39.95 (or more) or serving at one of these opportunities, you can
make a difference.

Serving Opportunities:

Boys and Girls Club Work Project Irvine

Date: Saturday, March 7
Time: 8:30am – 12pm
Location: 295 E. Yale Loop, Irvine, CA 92604
Details: We will be doing some painting, cleaning and light repair work in the interior of the Boys & Girls Club facilities. Please meet at Boys & Girls Club and wear comfortable clothing! Ages 7+

Register Here

Kids Around The World

Date: Saturday, March 7
Time: 10:30am – 1pm
Location: Mariners Church, Irvine Campus
Details: Kids Around the World partners with local churches, schools and other organizations to provide food for other countries. In response to the current food crisis in Liberia, we are partnering with them to help package meals for distribution. Families and children are welcome. All ages.

Register Here

Lighthouse Community Centers Work Project

Date: Saturday, March 21
Time: 8:30am – 12:30pm
Location: 1010 Minnie St., Santa Ana, CA 92701
Details: We will be working alongside the community members of Minnie St. to beautify the community center and surrounding neighborhood by painting, cleaning, tending to the community garden and more! Meet in the Upper Room at Mariners Church at 8:30a. Transportation will be provided. Wear comfortable work clothes and pack your sunscreen and water bottle. Ages 7+

Register Here

Medical Clinic at Christian Arabic Church

Date: Saturday, March 21
Time: 8am – 3pm
Location: 662 N. Gilbert, Anaheim, CA 92804
Details: Provide basic medical care for those in need. By bringing these vitally needed services, our hope and prayer is to spread the gospel message throughout the world and be a force for change. Wear comfortable work clothes and pack your sunscreen and water bottle. Lunch will be provided! Ages 18+

Register Here