Tag: Ephesians 5:1-2

Art of Relationships // Wk 5 Intentional Parenting

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Message Recap

This week’s message takes a look at what it means to be intentional and not only as parents, but as mentors and guides to the next generation. One of the things God calls us all to is to care for, raise up and disciple the next generation. The key elements we looked at were…
1. Having A Strong Belief – Mark 9:36-37
2. Beginning With The End Mind – Psalms 90:12
3. Encouraging Words – Proverbs 12:18, 12:6
4. Genuine Affection – Romans 12:10
5. Serious Fun – Proverbs 17:22
6. Delicate Discipline – Proverbs 3:11-12, Ephesians 6:4

Guiding Verses

Ephesians 5:1-2
1 “Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children 2 and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God“
Psalms 32:8
“I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you.“

Discussion Questions

  1. If you could join a “TV Show” family which would it be and why?
  2. What are some things you’ve learned from your family or a mentor that you are currently, or hope to incorporate with your family?
  3. What are some things you hope will be different?
  4. Of the 6 elements of parenting/mentoring, which ones are you doing well and which ones do you need to grow in?

Moving Forward

Any healthy, life giving relationship requires intentionality. Health isn’t something that just happens. Rather, it’s a fruit that the Holy Spirit creates in and through us as we partner with him. Take inventory this week of the ways you see him working alongside you as well as the ways he may be prompting you turn around and change behavior that’s harmful to yourself and those around you.

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Ephesians 5:1-2 // What Kids Need From Caring Adults pt.1: Beautiful Mess Wk 5

Introduction // 5 minutes

Who is your celebrity look a like?

Leader Note: Keep this light and engaging. If you someone can’t think of one for themselves ask others in the group to offer suggestions in a fun lighthearted manner.

 

Observation // 10 minutes

Read Ephesians 5:1-2

What does it look like to follow God’s example?

Leader Note: We have a heavenly model when it comes to relationships, be it parenting or any other relationship. This passage tells us to watch what God does, learn from it and then imitate what we see.

Sample answers may include

  • Involves all of who we are (v.1)
  • It’s relational; we do what we see him do as our father (v.1)
  • Life filled with love, not a one time thing but ongoing (v.1)
  • To be filled with love (v.2)
  • Puts love into action through selfless, sacrificial living (v.2)
  • Living in a way that pleased God, worshipful living (v.2)

 

Understanding // 10 minutes

What are some things you’ve learned from your family growing up that you are now, or hope to incorporate with your family?

What are some things you hope will be different?

Leader Note: This question may be difficult for your group to answer. Handle this section with care and make time to pray into areas of brokenness and pain at the end of your discussion.

 

Application // 15 minutes

Where are you following Christ’s example of love in your relationships?

Where aren’t you and what steps can you take to make a change?

 

Live It Out // 5 minutes

What if we lived out Christ’ example in our relationships? What would the impact be?

Prayer: Spend time thanking God for the example of perfect, self giving love seen in Christ. Pray for healing where other models of love have caused pain or shame. Pray for God’s Holy Spirit to enable us to understanding more fully Christ’s love for us that we may be able to express it in all of our relationships.