Matthew 25:31-46 // Do Good, Be Generous

Lean In // 5 minutes

Leader note: This week a simple question and image has polarized people into two camps.  Click the link below and have group members answer the question.  Make sure to watch your time as the question is simply intended to be fun and create energy.  Don’t spend more than 5 minutes on the question.

Click here: White/Gold or Black/Blue?

What color is the dress?

Look Down // 10 minutes

Read Matthew 25:31-46

What separates sheep from goats?

Sample answers may include…

  • Sheep respond with:
    • Action- food for the hungry & water for the thirsty
    • Engaging the stranger
    • Compassion- visiting the prisoner
    • Care for the sick
    • Obedience- Serving others is the same as serving Jesus
    • Seeing and identifying with the “least of these”
  • Goats respond with:
    • In-action
    • Indifference
    • Complacency
    • Rationalization- “why” help is not needed
    • Self-centeredness
    • Belief that the least are unimportant

What’s the surprise in the story?

Commentary: The surprise is found in how the people responded to the poor, needy, marginalized, and broken. 

Look Out // 10 minutes

Who are the “least of these” in our world today? 

Sample answers could include…

  • Hungry/Thirsty – Physically hungry/thirsty, seeking fulfillment & life
  • Stranger – Outsider, the immigrant, marginalized,
  • Without clothes – Homeless, vulnerable, human trafficking
  • Sick – Mentally ill, shut-in, physically handicap
  • Prisoner – Addicts, broken, indebted, broken relationships, depressed

Leader note: Go through each of the categories Jesus highlights in the passage and put together a full list of who would be included in each one before moving on to the next question.  Consider the emotional, physical, spiritual, geographical, financial, and relational factors.

An experiment: Integrating Love, Truth, Justice, & Peace

Leader note: We tend to lean toward one characteristic more than the others.  So, when we see a person described as “the least of these” we tend to react with love, truth, justice, or peace. 

As a Look Out experiment, choose a category from the “least of these” question (listed above) and divide your group into four groups.  Depending on their category, group members will only give voice for either love, truth, justice, or peace.  So, group members in the love category will speak up for the “least of these” through only a perspective of love while group members in the truth category will give voice for their perspective through a lens of truth, and so on and so forth. 

*Please remind everyone that it is only an experiment!

Sample Story: Mike pulls up to a traffic light and discovers a person standing on the side of the road holding a sign.  The Love Group responds by finding a way to help the person by rolling down the window and giving them something.  The Truth Group responds by thinking, “They made decisions that have led to this circumstance and I know that helping can only further the hurt.”  The Justice Group responds by advocating for the poor and needy and how they never received the same opportunities as others.  And, the Peace Group responds by trying to harmonize the different ways to help the person in need.

Look In // 15 minutes

Leader note: With the definitions of the “least of these” listed above and in mind, lead group members through these questions.  Don’t let the group settle for just the usual talking points like homelessness or immigration.  Rather, encourage group members to go deeper.

Where have you recently seen someone in need?  How did you respond?

What could it look like to integrate love, truth, justice, & peace for those in need?

Leader note: As the leader, pay attention to group member’s stories and themes so that you can possibly respond to helping those in need as a group.

How could your group respond to the needs in your community?

Live It Out // 5 minutes

What would happen in our community and world if we unleashed good deeds and generosity?

Leader Note: This weekend is our Be Fearless campaign where we are unleashing good deeds and generosity.  If you are looking for opportunities to serve, please click this link: Be Fearless.  There are five events to serve with one goal in mind: To fearlessly change the world for Jesus Christ.  Here are the events:

Saturday, March 7-

  • Boys and Girls Club Work Project Irvine – 8:30a-12n
  • Kids Around The World – 10:30a-1p

Saturday, March 14-

  • Boys and Girls Club Work Project Costa Mesa – 8:30a-12n

Saturday, March 21-

  • Lighthouse Community Centers Work Project – 8:30a- 12:30p
  • Medical Clinic at Christian Arabic Church – 8a- 3p

Key Verse(s): For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. – Matthew 6:21

Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. – 1 Timothy 6:18

Key Thought: Do good for those who can’t and won’t do anything for you.

Click here for Life Group Serve Opportunities

Learn More About Flow Questions: Check out Kenton Beshore’s book Ask in the Irvine Campus Bookstore for more on the Flow Question model.

Matthew 25:31-46 // Christian? Wk 2

Date:  April 13-14, 2013
Series:  Christian?
Message: Be Fearless
Passage:  Matthew 25:31-46

 

INTRODUCTION – 5 MINUTES

 

WHAT DO YOU SEE?  WHAT ARE YOU BLIND TO?

Leader note:  Here are several fun ways you can create energy with this question.

  1. Have everyone close their eyes.  Ask, “What is so and so wearing?”  Ask about several different people to see how observant people are.
  2. Present a 3D picture (that emerges when you stare or cross your eyes – they are available online), and discover who can “see” the image.
  3. Have a Where’s Waldo book and see who finds him first.
  4. Change something in the room where you meet and ask, “What’s different in the room?”

 

OBSERVATION – 20 MINUTES

 

READ MATTHEW 25:31-46.  WHAT DO YOU LEARN ABOUT FOLLOWING JESUS?

Leader note:  Last week we defined “Christian” as a follower of Jesus, someone who learns from and imitates Jesus.  This week we will look at what it means to follow Jesus.

 

Commentary from the passage:

It’s someone who cares for, sees, identifies, notices, and engages the “least of these” (without regard to who they are or how they got there)

  • Hungry
  • Thirsty
  • Stranger
  • Prisoner
  • Sick
  • Without Clothes

They didn’t know it was Jesus – just saw someone in need and met that need.

Jesus divided them as sheep and goats – sheep were useful for their wool, goats were not – they were divided by their usefulness.

 

WHAT’S THE SURPRISE IN THE STORY?

 There is a big division, they all thought they were followers, but Jesus said “no”!

 

UNDERSTANDING – 20 MINUTES


WHO WOULD BE INCLUDED IN THE CATEGORIES OF “THE LEAST OF THESE?”

Leader note:  Go through each of the categories Jesus highlights in the passage and put together a complete list of who would be included in each one.  Consider people in emotional, physical, spiritual, geographical, financial, relational terms.  Here are some examples to get you started.

 

  • Prisoners – captives – addicts, financially indebted, toxic relationships, slaves to their past,
  • Sick – mental illness, cancer, physically disabled, auto-immune disorders
  • Hungry – (continue working through the various categories)

 

CONSIDER ALL THOSE INCLUDED IN THE CATEGORIES, WHERE DO PEOPLE PUT ON BLINDERS TO THEM?

Leader note:  Look at how people live their lives and discuss how they purposefully avoid people that fall into the categories.  Maybe by “checking out” when issues come up, avoiding certain people altogether, creating a lifestyle where they control who they come in contact with.

 

WHY DO WE PUT ON BLINDERS TO THEM?

Commentary:

We aren’t uncomfortable
Takes time
Avoid our own stuff – we have to see our own if we engage
“I don’t want to go there”
I might catch it

 

APPLICATION – 20 MINUTES


WHERE HAVE YOU “SEEN” JESUS THIS WEEK AND RESPONDED TO HIM?  WHERE HAVE YOU PUT ON BLINDERS? 

Leader note:  Discuss opportunities you have run into this week to respond to those in the categories listed above and what you did.  It could be as simple as buying a cup of coffee for someone, engaging in conversation with someone who needed relationship.  Explore different ways you have met the needs of those hungry, thirsty, imprisoned, etc.

 

GO TO howtobefearless.org AND CHOOSE A SERVING OPPORTUNITY TO DO AS A GROUP.

 

LIVE IT OUT

 

WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IN OUR COMMUNITY IF WE TOOK THE BLINDERS OFF?